Topic: Christmas time

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Christmas time
08.12.2012 by

Hello,

during the whole Christmas time I feel somehow overwhelmed by all this “have-to-be happy”, extreme busyness. Everyone seems to need to visit someone, meet someone, get some presents, needs to prepare for whatever. I am not against Christmas in itself but somehow I cannot share this kind of excitement people tend to have.

Sometimes I feel that I am completely displaced during this period and I am a kind of stranger because I do not feel different during this time. Am I the only one not caring about Christmas?

Christmas Time
18.12.2012 by Moeppel

Not at all, if anything I consider Christmas to be the epitome of hypocrisy as far as I'm concerned.

However, taking that stance would imply some form of strong dislike, hatred or outright bitterness. While this may be accurate to an extend, as I'll gladly argue under that premise, I plainly learned to not give a damn and not feel bad about it, either. Feeding my misanthropy isn't the smartest thing to do.

I don't belong to merry get-togethers, never have, never will and luckily don't have an urge to, either.

Christmas
18.01.2013 by SnowWhite

Hey man, I also "hate" Christmas time, or should I write I care for it the leastest of the least? Don't know, I just found the Alexithemia topic today... it seems to fit me. So I joined the forum...

Just wondering why there is so little activity in the english part, compared to the german one? Maybe I should write here. My english is about as bad as my german (which is actually my mother-tongue)...

Snow

Holidays in general
27.01.2013 by mindspore

I never could see any day as being special or different than any other. I prefer to view holidays as some form of mass insanity that I am just observing. You could look at it and say 'at least they are getting some enjoyment out of it', but there are always people for whom it is a depressing part of the year. You could just say you fall right in the middle of the bell curve on that one.

Christmas
15.02.2013 by MrSmith

Hi, I am bored with time to waste so:

Throughout my childhood I enjoyed Christmas because of food, free stuff and frivolous days spent watching television or what-not, I can't reliably remember my view on the whole "Santa" business so a safe bet would be indifference. Over the years as I got less free stuff and decreased desire to spend time with others that indifference has increased. The last few years my routine on Christmas have been: Sit on the computer until dinner, eat dinner, go back down on the computer, go back to the living room in time for presents and desert and once that's done, I returned to solitude.

Currently I harbour no real thoughts or feelings towards Christmas, it is just a day and I could not care less for how other people celebrate, or do not celebrate it.

Holiday Cheer
10.03.2013 by SteMo

I remember that only five or six years ago (I'm 33 now) Christmas still gave me a cool feeling of nostalgia. It was the only holiday that I have ever felt anything for, since it brought back memories of family get togethers (with little to no hostility) and playing with new presents. Now that the sense of nostalgia has dried up, Christmas is just as exciting as New Years, St. Patrick's day, Halloween or my birthday. Which is to say, not exciting at all. It's just another one of those days when my friends all make big plans that I have to feign interest in.

I hate Christmas
06.03.2015 by DXS

Years ago, I decided not to put up a tree, found I didn't miss it.

Came to the conclusion I hated Christmas because of all the phoniness about it, and no longer celebrate it, asked family and friends to not give me presents.

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